GRIEF – Love Shows Up

While on the phone with a clergy friend who was in the middle of his grief journey, he asked me to hold on. “There’s a weird noise outside, let me check and see what’s going on.” “Andrea, they came and mowed my lawn. They didn’t ask (because I would have told them I...

GRIEF – Saying Less and Loving More

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak…” —James 1:19 Prior to this message series beginning, I was speaking with someone who had just received difficult news. My mind immediately raced to...

GRIEF – Saying Less and Loving More

“Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” —Romans 12:15 A few days ago, someone tagged me in a Facebook post. It was simple—a collection of alternative phrases for how we might respond to grief. Instead of saying, “I know what it...

GRIEF – Does Tiem Heal All Wounds?

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” —Psalm 34:18 As I was walking walking alongside Layne/JT during their miscarriage, Layne used the words, “I guess time heals all wounds. Right?” It did not feel like a...

GRIEF – The Myth of Moving On

“Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” —Matthew 5:4 Picture this: A woman stands in the middle of a store’s Christmas display, suddenly frozen in place. The air is thick with cinnamon and pine, lights twinkle overhead, and cheerful...